Not Understanding The Strategies Of Your Competitors
How on earth can a married woman have competitors? Truth is for every 1 woman getting married there are 10 others looking for a man to marry and sometimes wouldn’t mind settling to become a concubine provided the man would accede to their terms. It is amazing that while the goal of the wife is the wear his ring the goal of the concubine is to snatch the ring and that is why you can’t just seat in the boat of your marital ocean as a married woman and expect the current to take to the shore of marital bliss without paddling your boat in the direction of that shore.
I went online a couple of months ago to discover what single ladies were reading that they married woman have no clue about. I was shocked at the data available online on how singles can effectively snatch a married man and the exact things they need to do. I am not asking you to begin to compete with single ladies but it may not be out of place to be knowledgeable about the strategies against your home. How innovative is your bedroom life and how in touch are you with latest fashion trends and styles? An ancient Jewish Proverb says ‘Every enterprise is built by wise planning, becomes strong through common sense and profits wonderfully by keeping abreast of facts’ You can’t afford not to be on top of your game as a married woman and that is why you must keep abreast of facts not just in cooking and earning alone. Your dress sense, communication clues and ambiance must be top notch. You must be a woman of style that he would seek after consistently. How well can you keep your man glued to you?
How do you rate when it comes to sense of sight, touch and smell? Are you a woman who tie wrapper around in the house in the name of motherhood or you are the bumper shorts-lingerie wearing babe that he married who has committed to constant and never ending improvement. Singles go online to read ‘Dress sense that turns any man on’. ‘Tips to making any man stay glued to your forever’, ‘ Keys to seducing your boss’, ‘Secrets of winning over every married man’. Google is awash with endless articles on some of the topics above and loads of unmarried matured ladies are daily going online to read this while married women are not reading anything or spending their time reading soft sell. You can choose to up your game today and stay ahead of competition. Have you asked yourself ‘What sex styles does my competitor know that i am not aware of” or what romantic clues are you ignorant of? Do you know your spouse’s ‘MUMU button’ and do you know how to operate it every time you want to? It is no longer sufficient to feel safe in the midst of battles. Too many married men are flirting on BB with younger girls because you consider dirty what your competitors consider as flirting. Who should flirt with your spouse if not you?
Expecting Him To Understand Your Sexual Un-Responsiveness
I have learnt over time that mistakes are made not because we thought we were wrong but because we were so sure we were right and that assumption which is the lowest level of knowledge has cost too many people. Why would a married woman deny her man of sex and expect him to understand because in her words ‘He is supposed to be a man of God’. I usually warn women never to take a man’s sexual urge for granted. We know you may not be up to it at all times but you must know how to say No and fix an appointment. No man would understand your sexual unresponsiveness not even a Bishop and I advice you get help if you don’t always respond to your spouse instead of subjecting the man to torture. Many of us have exposed our men instead of protecting them. While i don’t want to hold brief for men who cheat but I have realized most affairs are preventable. That he is a man of God doesn't rule out the fact that he is a man and that is why i often appeal to women not to get married if you haven’t made up your mind about meeting the sexual needs of your man. I have met men who have been denied of sex for 8 months same as I have met women whose husbands only have sex with them thrice in a year(will address men after this series). A lot of religious women especially take their men for granted because you think the fear of God in Him should prevent him from cheating on you but you would soon find out how wrong you have been when your house-help or your kid sister begins to help your man. I have met loads of men lately(mostly Christian men) who have shut their minds to receiving sex from their women cos she is never ready and up to it and many of these women blame their job. Truth is you are cheating on your husband with your job cos your job is the one having sex with you and getting you tired for the rightful owner. I have learnt over time that mistakes are made not because we thought we were wrong but because we were so sure we were right and that assumption which is the lowest level of knowledge has cost too many people. Why would a married woman deny her man of sex and expect him to understand because in her words ‘He is supposed to be a man of God’. I usually warn women never to take a man’s sexual urge for granted. We know you may not be up to it at all times but you must know how to say No and fix an appointment. No man would understand your sexual unresponsiveness not even a Bishop and I advice you get help if you don’t always respond to your spouse instead of subjecting the man to torture. Many of us have exposed our men instead of protecting them. While i don’t want to hold brief for men who cheat but I have realized most affairs are preventable. That he is a man of God doesn't rule out the fact that he is a man and that is why i often appeal to women not to get married if you haven’t made up your mind about meeting the sexual needs of your man. I have met men who have been denied of sex for 8 months.
Confession: The power of God rests upon me and i outrun every opposition. I am a woman of class and every tongue rising against my marriage is condemned from today. I am woman in a place of honour and I rebuke every troubled wind raging against my home.
Praise Fowowe International.
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