Your Child And Sex With Praise Fowowe.

As i said yesterday, we are starting a new series on our Children and Sex by Praise Fowowe who is a family life coach who's mission is to assist people achieve success and sanity in their sexuality and family life. I believe the key to building a great nation is building a great family and there can be no great family with a messed up sexuality. A child whose sexuality is already messed up may ultimately become a problem in marriage as an adult so I have a two- fold mission that is summarized as Raising a sexually pure generation and building the most desirable family life.is to build a Sexpurecentric Generation My Mission. Enjoy

I am excited at this season because of the testimonies coming in from various homes across the country and outside. It is so great to know that this is generating the desired results and we are preserving the future of our nation. I believe if we can checkmate the predator we would have been able to deal with the effects of child sexual abuse. For sometime we have been trying to explain the sex definition I gave some days ago and we are on the aspect of why the only safe sex is sex in marriage. Yesterday I said the effect of sex in marriage is good news while outside of marriage is bad news. Sit your child down and let her understand that statement that in marriage when a woman misses her period she is excited and rushes to break the news to her husband but when pregnancy occurs to a pre-teen or teenager the excitement of the pleasure is gone and the guy would never agree to accept the pregnancy. In their bid to keep it away from the parents young people resort to abortion so quiz your girl a bit by asking: who gets pregnant? Who goes through abortion? Who dies through abortion? Who loses her womb during abortion if there are complications? Who drops out of school becos of pregnancy? Who does menial job to raise a child? Who gets stigmatized by the society cos of unwanted pregnancy? Who is the fool? Who should be wise? Instruct your girl that the most important word in her dictionary must be No and not Yes to any guy or adult trying to play funny and tell her should any adult call her the most beautiful girl outside You she must realize that the most beautiful girl in Nigeria expires every 365days. .
I am so certain you have been able to run your girls through the questions I wrote about yesterday and I hope you haven’t forgotten our definition for sex which is a covenant exchange of life, love and pleasure between the man and the woman in the marriage environment for the purpose of unity, procreation and expression of marital love. We have been trying to break down the definition and so far we have gotten to the ideal environment for sex which we defined as marriage. Here are some other justifications for your child: (3) The body you use in marriage is a body you own while outside is a stolen body (4) Sex in marriage is a product of love, outside is a product of lust (5) Sex in marriage is void of STIs(except where one person has gone to cheat) while you are not sure of the person you are sleeping with outside of marriage (6) Sex in marriage is a fulfillment of purpose while outside is an abuse of purpose (7) In marriage your wife’s body can’t blackmail you but outside of marriage you can be messed up for life. Instruct your child that sex is not an experiment or fashion at this age and like my mother taught me ‘The difference between your wife’s body and the other lady is the shame that comes with it when you are caught.
I can’t believe we have been running this particular series for 50 days already and I am humbled at the testimonies coming out from so many homes who have been blessed by the daily devotional because I never take for granted your readership. May the peace that comes with this season rest and abide with you all in Jesus name and many thanks for those that showed up with their kids yesterday for the party and the movie. We look forward to having more of that next year. So far we have covered why the only safe sex is sex in marriage and that takes us to the final aspect of the definition which has to do with the purposes for sex. The definition specifies 3majors purposes which include: Unity, Procreation and expression of marital love.
Unity: Sex is the only act that makes the totality of a man to be immersed in a woman and the totality of the woman to rdissolve in the man so tell your pre-teen and teen that there is a union anytime sex takes place. No child should kid himself saying ‘Nothing do me’ reality is sex involves a union of the 2 people involved and that is why in ancient Jewish culture sex equates marriage. Tell them that the unity purpose is responsible for why daddy and mummy looks alike after sometime.
Procreation: The second purpose of sex is for making babies and children shouldn’t make babies cos many have lost their lives that way. Parents must note that your children follow what you do not just what you say so you may have to start with yourself and check if you are truly clean and free yourself?
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