12Common Mistakes Married Men Make – 7
# 2 ‘I can Handle any Woman Syndrome’ Men! You can’t assume a woman because they come in different packages. A woman is a school you must humble yourself to attend and understand to be able to get the best out of her and your marriage. If you are not humble enough enough to seek to understand her before being understood you will assume a lot of things and may not get the best out of her.
Not understanding that every woman (good or bad) is a reflection of a man in her life that either built or destroyed her can make you judge her wrongly and not understanding that a woman is malleable and can be shaped can affect your ability to get the best out of her. Do you know her love language? Are you aware it is not every woman that hears ‘I love you’ by you saying it in words? You call her ungrateful and you are upset cos she never used what you bought for her without seeking to understand how she wants to be loved. You think she wants to rule and ride you because she always wants you to help her out with house chores not knowing it is her way of hearing ‘I love you’ and that what she hears is ‘I don’t love you enough’ everytime you decline her request for assistance irrespective of how much you think you are spending on her. Some women hear I love you when you say it with words and not using positive affirmation can kill such women’s esteem; others hear it by gifts(not necessarily the quality but the consistency of the gifts). Some other women hear I love you by spending quality time with them while others hear it by you touching them(don’t wait till you want to have sex to touch your woman). The last category however hear I love you by your acts of service so she sends you on errands and asks you to do mundane things that gets you angry not knowing it is her way of hearing ‘I love you’. To be continued I honour you.
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