Your Child and Sex 50–LIFE IS GOOD (8-12years)
Having defined the soil and gotten your daughter to perceive herself as a desirable you need to quickly assist your son with semen because a lot of boys attain puberty at 12 and semen production starts. If you don’t say anything to your child he would surely have to contend with a sex myth that says ‘Accumulation of sperm can cause backache and the only way to cure it is to download into a girl’.
Help your son understand that his semen is like a seed and when you have a seed the first thing is not to plant because the land and the season must be right. What you need do is to first identify your seed to find out the quality of the seed you carry. This simply talks about identity.
Parents needs to help their boys master the identity crisis a lot of boys seem to battle with at this stage. His identity is not what he wears, what he does or his father’s bank account. His identity must be clearly defined and internalized for him to live above peer pressure. It is shocking that even a lot of men can’t answer the question ‘who are you’? So work on your child’s acceptance of himself without comparing himself with any other kids.
The next thing after identifying your seed is to treasure the seed, nurture before planting. And planting must be subject to the right season.
Let your child know that his sex organs doesn’t define him and that every encounter with a girl must be to add value and build not to steal from them and destroy. Let him understand that building a girl earns him a space in her hall of fame while touching her inappropriately earns a space in her hall of shame.
To be continued
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