12Common Mistakes Married Men Make – 6
# 2 ‘I can Handle any Woman Syndrome’ The 2nd common mistake a lot of married men make is the natural assumption that they have all it takes to handle a woman. When the great theologian Simon Peter wrote ‘Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife’ he knew exactly that you can’t assume a woman because a woman is one of the most complex and interesting beings made by God because she could be angry when you think she is excited and excited when you think she is angry.
There is a lot to discover about a woman such that the moment you assume you understand her you get yourself into serious trouble. Have you ever taken time out to seek to understand your woman? Do you know the effect her upbringing is having on her personality and sexual response? Can you hear what she is not saying and are you aware there are maj'6or differences between you and her? Where you apply logic she applies emotions; where you want a recreational companion she wants a chat mate(communication); where you prioritize your work, her home is everything to her; where your words is an expression of your thinking, hers is an expression of her feelings. That is why she can tell you this minute that you are the best man to her and the next minute tell you she doesn’t feel loved. Not understanding that she is expressing her feelings which is not a true reflection of her reality can drive you crazy and make you respond in a wicked manner. Are you aware she needs about 8 non sexual touches per day to retain her feminity? And do you know that it is not all the time that she is talking to you that she wants you to solve her problem? Sometimes she just wants to talk and have your 100% attention but you want to summarize what she is saying thinking you know the end. Do you know your woman prefers the gifts of your ear to your mouth? To be continued
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